children are the key

I hope my child looks back on today

and remembers a Mum who had time to play

There will be years for cleaning and cooking

But children grow up when we are not looking

Cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow
...'Cause babies grow fast, we learn to our sorrow
So settle down cobwebs, dust go to sleep
I'm cuddling my baby, and babies don't keep...

Children Live Here

My house isn't perfect, nor do I care if it is. We have toys on the floor, dishes in the sink, stains on the rug. Sometimes I envy the houses of friends with older children (or none at all!). But such is the cost of having small children, one I don't regret for a moment.

 "Children Live Here."

When we welcome you here today
We hope that you enjoy your stay
But one thing we ask you hold dear
Please remember: children live here

There are toys on the floor
Some marks on the door
Clothes scattered in the hall
And marker on the wall
We'll repaint it someday
But we have no time today

There are things in the sink
A Barbie skating rink
This stuff doesn't bother us
And real friends don't raise a fuss
They know the reason is clear
Yes, they know children live here

Instead of cleaning the wall
We went out and learned about Fall
In lieu of the porch being swept
I held the baby who slept
Those clothes were for dress up
While I cleaned a bigger mess up
And the noise tells everyone near
There's no doubt children live here

The happy laughter means more
Than seeing all of the floor
And please respect those kids
For this home is hers and his
We hold our family dear
And you knew children live here

LIFE LESSONS

THERE IS ALWAYS TIME FOR A DRINK

AND YOU ALWAYS GOTTA HAVE A FRIEND

YOU CAN NEVER HAVE ENOUGH "QUICK" DINERS

YOU ALL AGREE THIS IS HOW IT IS...RIGHT???

YOUR BOY DONT NEED TO GROW UP A SISSY

ENOUGH SAID

HALF THE TIME WE ARENT LISTENING THE OTHER HALF WE ARE THIUNKING ABOUT RIPPING YOUR HEAD OFF

AS THE QUEEN SAYS DONT SAY IT IF YA CANT ROCK IT

DONT JUDGE...YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT MOM IS ACTUALLY A COOL "CLOSET" MOM

pictures made with keyboard symbols...hmmm.interestingg

0-jhnm p[;

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A Loved One's Message

To my dearest family, somethings id like to say but first of all to let you know that i arrived ok. I'm writing this from heaven where i dwell with God above where there are no more tears or sadness there is just eternal Love. Please dont be unhappy just because im outta sight remember that im with you every morning noon and night. The day i had to leave you when my life on Earth was through God picked me up and hugged me and said "I welcome you, Its good to have you back again you were missed while you were gone as for your dearest family they will be here later on."
  "See I need you so badly as part of my big plan, theres so much we have to do to help the mortal man."
Then God gave a list of things He wished for me to do And formost on that list of mine is to watch and care for you.
  I will be beside you every day, week and year and when you're sad I'm standing there to wipe away your tears.And when you lie in bed at night the days of chores put to flight God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night.
  When you think of my life on Earth and all those loveing years because your only human they are bound to bring you tears,But do not be afraid to cry it does relieve the pain remember there would be no flowers unless there was some rain.
  I wish that i could tell you of all that God has planned but if i were to tell you you wouldnt understand but one thing is for certain thogh my life on Earth is over I am closer to you now than I ever was before and to my very many friends trust God knows what is best Im still not far away from you I'm just above the crest there may be rocky roads ahead and many hills to climb but together we can do it taking one day at a time.
  It was always my philosophy and i'd like it for you too that as you give unto the world so the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow or in pain then you can say to God at night my day was not in vain.
 And now I am contented that my life ,tho short,  was worth while knowing as i passed along the way i made somebody smile.
  So if you meet somebody who is down and feeling low just lend a hand to pick them up as on your way you go.
   When you are walking down the street and you've got me on your mind just remember I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.And when you feel that gentle breeze or wind apon your face thats me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace.
  And when its time for you to go from that body to be free remember your not going away,  your coming here to me  I will always love you from the land way up above we will be in touch real soon

      P.S. God sends his love.
                                                                                                                        Love ya
                                                                                                                                   me
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THIS IS A POEM I FOUND IN MY MOMS PAPERS AND SUCH AND I JUST THOUGHT IT IRONIC TO FIND IT CAUSE I JUST HAD A ROUGH PATCH ON MY BIRTHDAY AND NOW I BELIEVE SHE KNEW I WOULD FIND IT WHEN I NEEDED IT. I LOVE YOU MOMMY AND I MISS YOU SO MUCH BUT I AM STRONG AND I KNOW WE ARE ALWAYS TOGETHER BUT DAMN IT I WANT YOU BACK IN YOUR BODY SO BAD.

my birthday blowed big ones

ok here it goes the true reason why i started a blog so i would have to get all emotional with people when things are just seeming shitty for me.
yesterday was my birthday i turned 28 along with my nieces 11th birthday which is cool except when the 11 yr old belongs to people who we now have a strained relationship due to i guess way different life styles now. it just sucks to see people who are your family treat there friends like they were the family and we were the outsiders the funny thing is we seen it through different people but it just seems different this time and i dont know why. my hubby crys more now then i have ever seen him cry he is at such a loss at why  people treat him like a piece of trash even his own family that he just dont know what to do anymore, he has never done anything to be concidered that in my opinion but my opinion isnt theres ya know? i mean they just dont have anything good to say about us most the time and yea its at me too but im more mad that its aimed at josh just because he doesnt have good work ethic at times so fing what niether did his or does some of his family but we dont constantly down grade them all the time ya i complain  but not just constantly being nasty.and most the time im like well it there life let them live it how they want cause its not affecting me but it is in ways.
  ok anyways we got off subject a little, im all for having birthdays centered aound the kids cause in reality that is who it for but it just makes you feel like crap when its your own family who doesnt even hardly remember that it my birthday too, my own aunt who has been that for 28 yrs now keeps forgetting and then announced it in front of everyone that she forgot, what a great feeling well now things will defenatly be different cause im starting to relise we have to be out for our selves as much as possible instead of constantly getting my feeling hurt cause family shouldnt be that way especially when it is your own brother or sister or something like that.

well since i cried through most of this im gunna get off of here for now i have a headache but ill probably put more later and THATS MY LIFE OR SOMETHING LIKE IT...................................................................

SO UNDERAPPRICIATED!

WELL AS EVERYONE WHO HAPPENS APON THIS BLOG CAN SEE IM NOT VERRY GOOD AT KEEPING UP ON THIS EVERYDAY BUT I WILL GET BETTER AT IT. ANYWAYS SO LAST NIGHT I TRY MY HAND AT COOKING CHICKEN FRIED STEAK WITH MASHED POTATOES AND SCRTCH GRAVEY MADE WITH THE DRIPPINGS FROM DOING THE CFS OK I THINK IT TURNED OUT GREAT AND EVERYONE ELSE SAID IT WAS GOOD TOO BUT MY HUSBAND SAID AS SOON AS I SAT DOWN " YOU KNOW YOUR SUPPOSE TO MAKE SCRATCH GRAVEY WITH THIS DONT YOU?" " I DID" I SAY AND I GO THROUGH HOW I DID IT WITH FLOUR N YADDA YADDA YADDA HE SAYS " NO THAT LOOKS LIKE BROWN GRAVEY" THATS BECAUSE OF THE WAY I DID IT WITH THE DRIPPINGS BTW, SO I HAVE TO MAKE HIM GET UP AND TRY IT. THEN TODAY MY FATHER IN LAW TELLS ME  THOSE PORK CHOPS YOU MADE LAST NIGHT WERE DAMN GOOD  AND I SAY " IT WAS CHICKEN FRIED STEAK BUT THANKS" AND I PROCEED TO TELL HIM ABOUT THE CONVO WITH JOSH LAST NIGHT AND HE TELLS ME OH THERE WAS GRAVEY I DIDNT EVEN KNOW! GRRRRRRRRR.......... WTF OWELL THEY ALL TOLD ME IT WAS GOOD BUT IT JUST MADE ME FEEL LIKE WTF CAUSE I AM NOT THAT GOOD AT SCRATCH GRAVEY AND I THOUGHT IT WAS KIND OF GOOD AND THE MAIN 2 GUYS I LIVE WITH ;IE; MY HUSBAND AND HIS FATHER DIDNT EVEN RELIZE I DID IT THAT IS WHAT SUX.

ON A BETTER NOTE WE HAD TO HAVE A TOW TRUCK COME IN TODAY AND PICK UP EDDIES CAR TO TAKE TO THE SHOP AND THE TOW TRUCK DRIVER LET JORDEN AND ALLISON PUSH THE CONTROLS TO MOVE THE BED OF THE TOW TRUCK BACK UP AND ONTO THE TRUCK ITS SELF. IT WAS PRITTY COOL OF HIM TO DO THAT!